Thank you for sharing a bit of time with this piece. An important part of my thinking on this piece, comes from that, one could say, senseless line of well intended support, "They've gone to a better place" and when speaking of support of a living grief, (ie, a broken heart, separation etc) "well it is for the better"
None of which can be proven to be true and at times, serves more to anger the person they intended to offer tenderness of support. And so I find we lie to ourselves to avoid having to deal with the truth in the hands of those feeling the uncontrollable need to comment instead of just listen.