A very well explained writing. Thanks very much. Just as a side note. When I was a younger man's child, I had left home and had not spoken to my mother for an eternity. My room mate was contacted by my mother, (unknown to me) and he worked (tricked me at times) on me over time to go and visit. It was finally agreed that, yes, I would go and visit. Upon arrival, Mom offered me food. NO THANK YOU.... I gave him the look, YOU BEST SAY NO! So he did. As we were leaving my Mom again, asked, "would you not at the very least take some food with you, NO THANKS~!!

As we walked out the door my Mother forced some food package in the Jacket pocket of my friend. Once we were down the street, he started to eat, so I asked him, WHERE IS MINE..... I was so freaking hungry. His only response, "you are so dam stubborn"